So You are Facing Tough Time, Now What?

Note: Two of my very dear friends, who also read this blog, are going through very tough time, one lives in US & second in Pakistan. So this post is especially written for them. You can also add your words and share your experience if it can help.

Unfortunately I’ve no how-to on how to be strong and changing the fate etc, rather I shall talk about very practical approach.

So you’re in hard time, true, accept it, relax your soul (which seems impossible, but you can). Now analyse the situation and look for solution. I’m telling you this from my experience, we most likely select the complaining part when we go through hard time, it is really very uncommon to stand to fight for what you deserve.

In life almost every problem eventually pass, communicate with people you trust, including yourself. Now find the way you can bring good back for you. Be selfish, and do not let anyone damage your health and mind, how else you’ll fight against it.

Engage yourself in something which is important, any fresh activity, like reading, blogging or gardening, worrying is not important.

Talk with someone who knows you and respects you, share what’s been happening, what are your fault, how you can stand again. And I believe You Shall!

Time will come when you will be at peace again, try to stay focused on learning from this, stay positive.

Friends, this is not just another post for me. I’ll specially pray for each and everyone of you. Be Strong! Be Human!

“The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to create, to overcome, to endure, to transform, to love and to be greater than our suffering.”  -Ben Okri

My friend Oliver also did the same thing for one of his friends, read Being Human (also go through all comments there)

Friends, if you can please add your words, please do in comments. Thank you very much.


  1. Sidra Qasim says:

    Thanks Wakas, its matter a lot for me.

  2. Sharmeen says:

    all i can say is thanks for being so sincere. One kind word can keep three winters warm and i am sure your friends are feeling good now after reading this post.

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